Poole - Beaulieu - Poole - 16 - 19 July
Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010Friday 16th July
We had originally planned to head down to the boat on Thursday and be back on Sunday. My car was booked in for a service on Monday morning. But gales forecast for Thursday and Friday put us off, especially as we’d be taking the kids (including 6 week old baby) and would have to use the dinghy to get out to the boat since the free launch service only runs from Friday evenings for the weekend.
So instead I rearranged the car to be serviced on Wednesday and set off on Friday. By the time we’d packed all the kids up and got down to Tesco to stock up on provisions it was about 3pm by the time we got to the yard. I got the dingy and outboard out while Ange and the boys had a drink in the club house and then got a lift over to the boat in the launch.
First drama: the batteries were dead. I noticed the radar switch was in the on position. Now, it could have been me since I had fitted the new radar only the previous weekend, but I do remember Jamie fiddling with the switches before we left the boat, for which I kept reprimanding him. Anyway, without power we were somewhat stranded as I couldn’t even start the engine. Once the radar switch was off the solar panel would start to charge the batteries but with the day about to end I doubted they’d be sufficiently charged by the time we needed to leave in the morning. And it would have been a bit awkward without power that evening.
The batteries are as old as the boat - about 7 years old - so beyond their life expectancy anyway. So as it was still 4pm I quickly called the launch back over, and once ashore jumped into the car and headed to the nearest chandlery whereupon I bought an expensive 86A/h battery to replace the smaller of our three batteries - used primarily as the engine start battery (which can be isolated from the two domestic batteries by the battery switch). An expensive way to buy batteries but I didn’t have much choice. Back on the boat by 5pm I quickly swapped it over and had the engine running and charging the domestics.
Next drama: About 30 minutes later an alarm sounded from the engine console. I couldn’t make sense of the symbol that was lit up so I got out the engine manual and compared to the schematics. It was the light on the far left and the first light on the diagram in the book was the “seal proof” alarm. This meant that the saildrive seal - a rubber seal around the part of the engine that protrudes from the bottom of the boat, was breached and the advice therefore was to “sail immediately to port and lift the boat”. Gulp. That isn’t great news. But I couldn’t believe it so took a look at the engine. Immediately noticed that the fresh water coolant was low. I topped it up, cleaned the sea water intake filter and fired her back up. This time no alarm. I looked more closely at the console and manual and realised that my console looked nothing like the one in the book. Looking at the symbols themselves it was clear it was the water temp alarm, and the seal proof alarm was in a different position. Got me worried a bit though.
So finally we were able to settle down and have some dinner!
Saturday 17th July
At 0830 on Saturday morning we slipped our mooring and motored down the channel to the fuel barge where we filled up with diesel before heading out of the harbour, hoisting sail and heading East for the Solent. As forecast the wind had dropped but there was, as usual, still a big swell and with the wind behind us not able to keep the sails filled against the rolling motion of the boat.
The boys weren’t particularly happy with the motion of the boat and Ange put a DVD on for them to watch. Ben, at 4 years old, seems to have reached a more sensible age and took the option of lying in his bunk watching the DVD, and snoozed. Meanwhile, Jamie, in the midst of the terrible twos, who can be a pain in the neck at the best of times, was, not surprisingly, whiny and clingy. Maria, at 6 weeks, was much easier. I think she slept all the way. Jamie required constant management!
After not very long I decided to roll up the jib, pull in the main and motor sail to boost our progress and steady the boat a bit. With the tide going our way it wasn’t long before we were passed Hengitsbury Head where the wind shifted a little and the sea state became a bit more constant. So we unfurled the jib again and reached up to Hurst Castle. Ange was able to take the helm, while I took over baby and toddler management. In fact we had a superb sail up to Hurst and I sat with the kids in the cockpit. We rocketed into the Solent with the tide where the water went flat and the kids became more content.
While heading towards Hurst I spoke to Dominic and Gilly on the phone who had just set off from the Hamble in their boat and arranged to meet at Bucklers Hard. Dominic was surprised to discover we had all the kids with us. Here’s a photo of me speaking to Dominic on the phone with all the kids about me:

Running up the Solent the wind built and we made good progress with wind and tide towards the river Beaulieu. Ange got the kids some lunch down below and off the entrance to the channel I turned into the wind to take the sails down, feeling the full force of around 30 knots of wind. We saw 34 knots of wind funnelling down the river as we motored in.
Entering our allocated berth was awkward due to the strong spring tide running and the berths being up and down stream - the tide running fast into our berth. With not much space to turn between the trots the tide will easily take you sideways and as it was we had to quickly abort, and take a second go, even then entering the berth somewhat diagonally! Having only Ange to jump ashore and two inquisitive toddlers getting into the wrong place at just the wrong time (right in the way of the winch to which I had the stern line attached) made things slightly tense, but we got the boat in with no damage, though we did kiss the stern quarter of the boat next to us with a fender.
Shortly after we berthed, Doz and Gilly arrived in their boat (a lightweight racing yacht which they’d done really well to sail double handed into 30 knots of wind and a strong tide and make it not long after us). But they were equally impressed with us even contemplating a weekend on the boat with two toddlers and a baby (i.e. they thought we were mad).
That afternoon was spent sat on the grass at Bucklers Hard sipping beer and pimms while the two boys rolled around and paddled in the river, before enjoying dinner and drinks aboard Csardas.
Sunday 18th July
The river Beaulie approach channel is restricted by a bar, and local soundings on the harbour master office suggested it would be gone noon before DoZ and Gilly could leave, and about 1330 before we could make it out ourselves. But that suited us just fine and Sunday morning was spent walking the two miles or so along the river through the forest. Even Ben and Jamie both walked most of the way and we all enjoyed Tea and Scones in the village before walking all the way back again.
After lunch we saw Doz and Gilly off and then prepared Csardas before heading out ourselves. The plan was to head to the Western end of the Solent to spend the night at Yarmouth so that we’d be in a good position to catch the last of the ebb out past the Needles early in the morning at about 6am. As we were punching wind and tide to get to Yarmouth and had kids aboard I simply motored right up the rhum line and we were in Yarmouth berthed against the new walk ashore pontoon by mid afternoon.

We ordered dinner at the Kings Arms, and to amuse a tired Jamie while we waited, I took him down the road to watch the cars boarding the Yarmouth-Lymington ferry which he was fascinated with.
Yarmouth is a lovely harbour in which to kick back, relax and watch the world go by. And, apart from the usual shenanigan of getting children to bed, that’s exactly what we did that evening.
Monday 19th July
I need not have set my alarm for 0600 as I was woken at around 4am by the sound of Maria crying and Ange trying to soothe her. Ange had got up to feed her, as usual, in the small hours but unlike usual was unable to settle her. Maria normally just needs a quick burp and is straight back to sleep. Not so this morning. Although she usually settles easily we figured she probably just had a bit of wind so we weren’t too concerned, though it did mean we couldn’t get back to sleep. Maria would only settle lying face down on top of one us.
Still awake at a little after 0500 I got up and made a coffee and took a look at the weather outside. It was a lovely still, sunny morning and the wind had done as the forecast said it would and swung further to the south. This was good news as it would mean we would be able to sail more freely direct to Poole rather than lump into the prevailing winds as normally happens (and with kids this usually means motor-sailing). The wind had dropped too and was currently very light.
It also meant that what wind there was was gently blowing the boat off the pontoon. Being alongside we were kind of parallel-parked with boats fore and aft of us. So now that the wind was blowing directly off the pontoon it meant I could easily exit the harbour on my tod without having to get Ange out of bed. So I decided to head off straight away, slipped the lines and motored out of the harbour.
A little while later as we were approaching the Needles channel and I was stowing warps and fenders Ben appeared at the companion-way with a big smile. I think he found it novel that he had woken up to the sound of the engine and the boat underway. He came up and sat in the cockpit patiently until I could get his life-jacket sorted.
James appeared soon afterwards, but was not in quite such a jolly mood (understatement). He’d had a late night and I guess the engine disturbing him earlier than usual hadn’t really agreed with him.
I decided to take the route out past the Needles, rather than the North Channel that we’d come in by, as this would take us further South to give us a freer course when we turned for Poole. So we motored out to the end of the Needles Channel before turning due West, cutting the engine and reaching gently back to Studland Bay. With a gentle F2 we had a very easy sail back.
Unfortunately Maria still wasn’t right and Ange had to comfort her all the way back. Jamie being in a bad mood didn’t help matters.
Still not overly concerned about Maria at 0900 as we approached Studland we decided to anchor in the bay and go ashore in the dinghy to give the boys a run on the beach. Just to complicate matters I was unable to furl the jib - the furling line appeared jammed. I decided just to dump the jib on deck and worry about it once anchored.
So we were anchored at 0930. I dumped the dinghy in the water to make room on the foredeck and managed to unjam the furling line, then get the jib back up, before going ashore.
Maria would only settle in the papoose, nestled against either one’s tummy. I walked up and down the beach with her and she was fine only to complain as soon as she was moved or we sat down.
We met another sailing family who came ashore in two boats - a regular Avon with outboard contained parents and 18 month old baby while a Walker Bay sailing rib was helmed in by their 8 year old daughter. It turned out they were at the end of the first week of a three week sailing holiday. They’d left The Hamble at the start of the previous week with the intention of sailing to the West Country but due to the gales at the end of the week had only made it as far as Weymouth. Fed up with waiting in Weymouth they had dropped back to Studland Bay. Nice to see another young family away on their boat and made us feel we weren’t the only ones taking up the challenge of sailing with toddlers.
By the end of the morning we were getting a bit worried about Maria. She still wasn’t settling and seemed quite hot. We headed back to the boat where we had lunch and then weighed anchor. On the way back to the harbour Ange called NHS Direct and after quite a lengthy conversation was advised we should go straight to Poole Hospital where they have a children’s unit. By now Ange was quite anxious so I upped the revs and motored quickly to the mooring. Ange packed a bag for herself and Maria and, leaving the boat in the state it was, we piled into the dinghy and went ashore.
I dropped Ange and Maria off at A&E and then drove back to the multi-story carpark. By this time James was fast asleep so Ben and I had to wait in the car for about an hour. By the time Jamie was awake Ange had messaged to say she was now in the children’s unit and we went off to find her.
At Maria’s age the doctors have to be concerned about the chance of her having meningitis or some other bacterial infection. So as well as taking blood and spinal fluids they put her on a course of antibiotics, and insisted on her staying in hospital for at least 48 hours. In the event the tests came back negative and Maria obviously just had a virus. To our great relief she shook off her fever by Wednesday evening but because of the antibiotics had to stay until Friday.
I had to enlist the help of a friend to look after the boys on the Tuesday morning so that I could get back down to the boat and collect our things, clean the dishes we’d left and tidy up before managing to visit Ange and Maria for an hour and getting back to collect the boys.
So a stressful end to an otherwise successful weekend saw me running around after the boys all week and Ange and Maria stuck in hospital in Poole. But my initial worries that the illness was caused by something on the boat were put to rest when it transpired midweek that it was just a virus.
Sailing with toddlers is challenging. We’ve done Biscay three times in the past, and several other long offshore passages and I can safely say they are nowhere near as challenging as a weekend jaunt in the Solent with a toddler with a case of the “terrible twos”! But we are able to see past the difficult bits and the fact that we ended the weekend in the hospital and remember an enjoyable weekend. We’ll do it again and it will get easier!


